They were our family friends for over forty years
– one aunt, 4 sisters and 2 brothers.
When we learnt about the sad demise of one of the
sister’s (youngest) husband, we wanted to pay them a visit. During our recent visit to
Bangalore, we chose a Sunday as everyone in that family had office to attend
during the week. So I spoke to her, offered our condolences and proposed to
visit them on 5th November.
I also hinted if possible we will quickly meet the other sister (oldest) who stayed
just opposite to her residence and had recently shifted from Mumbai.
Two days after that conversation, the one who
relocated from Mumbai called me up to check if we could visit them on 12th November, instead of 5th
because the sister I spoke to forgot to mention that a trip to Coorg was planned that weekend already
for them. As we were returning back to Kolkata on 15th November, I
had to express my inability to travel roughly 90 kms to visit them, just three
days before the long train journey, particularly because my mother has to wear
collar for spondylitis during these rides and that could risk her stability. I
assured her I will visit next year once I am back.
Just a couple of days before my call confirming
the date of my visit, my neighbor, a budding business graduate wanted to visit Coorg with us and I asked her to check
all available options. However, later when she and her mother came to chat, she
did not seem interested in Coorg anymore.
All of sudden the plan changed to Arunachala – She wanted to do Giri Pradakshina.
I was hearing that word for the first time. I mocked
her that she remembers visiting pilgrims, only when she has trouble in her
educational scope. Little did I know, the mockery was not for her, but for my
own ignorance
So there were six of us from four families, who were
almost ready to go to Arunachala. It was time to consider the minutes of the
trip now.
How To Go
I called our regular driver who quoted INR 9000 including driver barter and
service tax. Toll fee was not included. 6 people in a five seat car obviously were
a big no. I did not bother to check for a bigger car as I knew no one was keen
to spend that kind of money
Auto fare was INR 200 per person for Giri
Pradakshina. If we opted for bus then with food, accommodation cost per person (not including
personal shopping mementos and books), per person cost could easily come to INR 3000, based on what I could gather from other travelers in different blogs.
Why
to go?
Then I begin my personal research on the proposed
location- Thiruvannamalai
Arunachala Hill
Arunachaleshwar Temple
Maharishi Ramanna Ashram
Sri Seshadri Swamigal Ashram
As I researched and as I read more about these saints, saw the
images on Google and read the reviews on trip advisor, I found this question
growing in me – Why did I have to hear about Giri Pradakshina from a 18 year
old indecisive kid who wanted Coorg one day and wanted this, the next
day?
I suddenly wanted to visit this place just for the Giri
Pradakshina.
One of the senior lady travelers dropped because
we planned to do the trip by bus. Her daughter was not willing to allow her mom
and promised to take her by car soon.
The other one dropped as her son has cricket
practice on Sunday. I was willing to do the trip on week day just to
accommodate her. Her husband cannot manage work from home these days and so
will not be available to take care of her son, when she is travelling. (I work
for my clients from anywhere, any time, so for me week days or weekends do not
matter)
Finally the young lady whose brilliant idea this
was, along with her mother had to back out because her father whose permission
had to be sought for this trip forewarned them to cancel the trip because it
was raining in Chennai.
Are we going? We sure are – My mother is my best
travel partner, particularly early morning, bus rides to pilgrims.
For me this was not a destination visit any more.
I can get very unreasonable once in a while – It
was a mental monologue with the one I was planning to visit – Make this
happen!!
5th
November 2017
We left home at 6:00 AM. We had to board a bus
from Anekal to Hosur. Anekal, however was a good 5 kms away from my residence.
I have been staying in this house since 2012 and never have I found an auto
that early in the morning in these five years. That day we did. Autos do not ply in that route usually.
Bus fare is INR 15 for each. That auto took just
INR 10 to cover the same distance.
The mental monologue was working.
Bus was about to start when we reached Anekal. We
quickly got ourselves two comfortable seats and enjoyed the morning breeze.
(Fare INR 18/- per person)
The ride from Hosur to Thiruvannamalai in SETU bus
was way above my expectation. It was not crowded at all, and the roads were
awesome. We reached Thiruvannamalai in 4 hours, though all the way I kept
asking the conductor and fellow passengers, a dozen times to let me know when
we cross Thiruvannamalai. (Fare INR 90/- per person)
Accommodation
I did my homework on accommodation however I had
decided to take a call only after the purpose of visit – the Giri Pradakshina
was successfully done, if we want to stay or return the same day.
We had no idea how hectic it will be, if my mother
who is in late sixties with spondylitis can manage to return the same day.
We kept that part open.
I remember trying to talk to someone in Sri Seshadri Swamigal Ashram - I asked if there was anyone with whom I could
speak to in English to clarify my queries. The man said “One minute” and then after a few
minutes of wait, the call got disconnected. I tried calling again and requested
to speak in English. He said, “No English”. My problem is I can understand
Tamil however cannot speak. I could see he was trying to be helpful. I spoke to
him in broken English. He understood and clearly confirmed to come and speak about
the accommodation. I did not understand what to make of it, somehow I was
relieved at his tone
I quickly used Google Translator to prepare for some Tamil phrases
to talk to the auto driver regarding places to visit and Giri Pradakshina, or
to request for accommodation.
In Thiruvannamalai Bus stand, after we got down from the bus, I
approached the first auto I saw there, trying to recall the Tamil words I
learnt last night. It had all got jumbled and I was reluctant to take out my
diary to read out from there.
Here is what I said the driver – Hello, Hindi, English, Kannada?
And guess what, he responded back in Kannada. “Heli
Madam” (Means “Tell Me Madam”)
God, it was not a monologue any more. It was a
dialogue. The man up there was guiding us with his tribe of auto drivers – One in
the morning and other one now.
All I told him before we sat in his auto - “Whatever
Punya (Good) we do today, you know half is yours – What you show me today is
what I will know is there”
He was very helpful and a person with very high
integrity. He charged INR 350 for both of us.
Highlights
I tried to see the Hill from every lingam that I
visited.
We made it to Sri Ramanna Ashram and I told myself
– I will be back for a 3 day stay just in that place alone.
When we reach Sri Seshadri Swamigal Ashram, we
were asked to wait as food was being served to God. We had Prasad and
took one scoop for the auto driver. I picked a book on his life for the girl who came up with the idea of this trip.
We had to stay till 4 PM for Arunachaleshwar
temple to open. As we had covered the rest, we decided to leave for Bangalore
post lunch and be back again just to explore the temple next time.
Actually both of us liked the whole trip because
of the ease, comfort and sense of rejuvenation. We both knew we will be back,
not just once – many more times
When we were in Thiruvannamalai, the youngest sister called us
multiple times, whom we were supposed to visit that day. As we were in the bus and I knew I will not be audible, I chose to reach home and call her.
I did.
She gave me a mouthful asking why we did not visit her as planned and why I was not picking her calls. The whole family was waiting for us to have lunch till 3 PM.
I told her what the other sister had told me that they all were visiting Coorg on 5th November. "We had no travel plans. They had plans. They went." She reasoned.
I realized I had misunderstood the whole conversation - I assumed that both sisters were going to Coorg. I had no reason to assume that though.
Was I destined to visit Arunachala then?
Lifetime takeaways
Even by thinking of Thiruvannamalai one can attain liberation.
Think Arunagiri. Annamalai Hill. Arunachalam. Arunai. Many names. One Hill.
Too many coincidences..
1] Misunderstanding a normal conversation - I would have been in a different place on that day, if I had made the right sense of that chat
2] An auto from no where, that early in the morning who charges you less than bus fare
3] A Kannada speaking auto driver in a Tamil speaking state to make our lives easy there
4] We reached Sri Seshadri Swamigal's Ashram exactly when food was being offered to God and at least 4/5 people, asked us to wait for a few minutes to take Prasad. Such experiences humble you, when strangers who knows that we do not belong there ensure that you do not miss what matters most to many of us - God's Prasad.
The whole experience felt like, someone up there was indeed listening and making ways.